How To Stop People From Teasing You.
Most of us have been teased at some point in our lives, and for different reasons—sometimes because someone likes us, but more often because they don’t. If you're lucky and you haven't been teased yet, you're likely to experience this annoying and degrading form of bullying someday. If there is someone teasing you and you have no idea what to do, there are ways to reduce it by controlling your reaction.
1. Change your perspective.
Others can often perceive someone’s potential reaction to teasing by the way they act under pressure. If your perspective on teasing is the same as theirs—that it makes you get angry—then making fun of your quirks is what a bully is likely to do. But if your perspective is indifferent towards teasing, you may find that bullies don’t think you’re much fun— and they’ll leave you alone.
2. Answer teasing with a one-liner.
Instead of engaging with the bully and teasing them back, wait until they are done taunting you throw and a one-liner at them before walking away. After saying your line, shrug, turn and walk calmly away. This displays that you aren’t easily ruffled, making you a boring target. You can try one-liners like these:
“Thanks for telling me that.”
“Oh, I thought I was cool.”
“So what’s your point?”
3. Make your voice strong.
Using a confident tone of voice displays your refusal to back down to the teasing. Don’t sound like you are going to cry; don’t sound like you are angry or upset; and don’t whine. Instead—even if you’re shy—raise your voice so that they can hear you and make your tone even and strong.
A shaky voice is also an indicator that the teasing has worked to upset you.
4. React in a cool manner.
Bullying often gets worse when you get angry in response, so it is a good idea to respond in a calm, cool way. Instead of bursting into tears or yelling out an angry response, try to react as little as possible. Doing so will show the bully that you are not afraid of him or what he is saying to you.
5. Let them tease you.
Do an experiment. For one week, take your new attitude with you wherever you have been getting teased ( or keep the new attitude available if you aren’t teased on a regular basis) . Allow the people to tease you without reacting at all, as much as they want. If after a week they haven’t moved on to teasing someone else, you don’t have to use this strategy anymore.
6. Act like you can’t hear.
One strategy to deal with teasing is to pretend like you can’t hear what they are saying in order to transform it into a joke. If they get in your face and try to force you to respond, just hold your hand to your ear and shake your head. This can turn into a funny situation, especially if you move your mouth without making a sound and perhaps pantomime being in a box or behind a wall.
7. Understand that it’s a game.
Although every bully or teaser has a different reason for why they pick on someone, the reason they all choose to tease is because they see it as a game. When you react, they win the game; when you don’t react, you win. Losing isn’t very fun, which is why minimizing your reaction usually makes a bully move on.
8. Acknowledge that it’s fun to them.
You have to understand that bullies tease because it is fun for them. It is an entertainment they engage in to make themselves feel good and forget negative feelings. They don’t always pick on others because they don’t like them or have low opinions of them.
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to be honest.....i do get teased at school....but when that happens....the teacher doesnt even look out for the children that are being teased....i'm not hating on anyone
but when i get teased they would make another friend join and then another,another and MORE I CANT EVEN FRKIN COUNT
i would beat the sh** out of them....but *APPARENTLY* this school is anti-bully free.....WHEN DONT EVEN FRKING LOOK OUT FOR ME!!!!!!!!
SO WHAT THE HELL IS THERE POINT FOR THE *ANTI CHEESY STUFF* IF THEY ACTUALLY CARED ABOUT THE CHILDREN THEN WHY THE HELL AM I INVISIBLE TO THEM....OH AND YESTERDAY MASSIVE FAIL ON P.E......FIGHTS.FIGHTS.PEOPLE GETTING UPSET.....CHEATING ON GAMES....LIKE WHAT...(as i say again im not hating im making a point)
My cunning friends throw papers ,books on me in that situation i feel very angry but i don't know which one throw papers ,books on me but they throw papers, books on me plz plz plz help Me to out this situation
I’m a girl and I do basketball every Wednesday and Tuesday but boys keep making fun of me cuz they think I’m bad at it yesterday was my first day and when I saw the boys there I got nervous and now that I watched this video tomorrow when we get to find out the teams I won’t be scared when they bully me
My mom and my brother keep teasing me, and my brother keep hitting me. Like EVERYDAY. He doesn't leave me alone at all that is why I tried to hit him in the face. I just want them to stop teasing me, and then I tease them too but they do it very badly where it gets to the point I just get furious.
This advice seldom works, ezpecially on determined people that have really shitty lives and want nothing more than to see u crumble. These situations can be impossible to remedy and get out of. There's 2 things u can do to try and fix it tho. 1. Understand yourself and why you do things and why you feel what your feelings are and love yourself and be ok woth those feelings cuz its normal to feel bad feelings and mess things uo when ur under a microscope or you're put in the hot seat. The more u understand about urself and ur situation the more confidence will naturally surface and bullies hate confidence because once u build it up enough they know they cant touch u and they know they end up falling under u. 2. This one isnt as good as the first cuz its actually just a superficial tactic to buy u time and can also backfire at points but of u get something or develop skills that they want out of u itll usually stop them from hurting u cuz theyll fear ull take it from them. (This can be material things which are the worst way to do it or developing a skill that u know they want to learn or see or hear that theyre gonna basically become addicted to, the best skill to develop in this regard is a sense of humor).
This isnt the typical advice u get but its the only thing thats actually real and not some empty cliche that wont do u any good or in some cases hurt u worse like, pretend theyre not there or think positive. Cuz in reality these people are like flies, they have all the time in the world and have not problem stepping in shit to get under ur skin and if anything is done over and over the feelings will just build in u over and over until i snap and do something stuoid thats only gonna hurt u.
These are the best 2 outlets because they also give u something to do and think about with ur life and can provide at least one escape to keep u going and one day even get u out of the mess they put u in.
The best way to learn about urself is to write ur feelings and everything down in a journal or recorded on ur phone and making sure no one ever sees it (anyone will use it as ammo or make an issue out of it because people dont know how to interpret other peoples deep feelings even tho we all have them). Meditate 5-10 minutes before and/or after u write to help clear ur mind so u can think about ur day and how u felt and what u did.
This will help u if u do it,
Best of luck!
My classmates think i pee my pants but i didnt its just water they luagh and luagh and then when i cried they probablly luagh after i went to the office.I cried alot more and at home and i dont even wanna go to school after that but ill try my best to be confident in front of them😥😭
My friends kept blaming and teasing me about almost every and every mistakes that I make. Like, when making a brochure, I just didn't get one spelling right. In dance activities, when the whole class is needed to dance, they blame me from spacing out if I get mistakes. For their information, I'm still learning and trying hard to memorize the steps. I'm not as fast learner as the others when it comes to dancing. The others gives me a rude tone.
In studies and academics. They tease me that I can't understand anything and gets mad when I ask questions about the project. Well, fyi the reason why I am asking is to make sure and not to get a mistake for our upcoming activity. I mean have u heard a saying, "it's better to ask a lot than become a fool for your entire life"
I felt so down and affected by these words, but then I realized, they're just a bunch of bitches who focuses more on others' mistakes than theirs.
One friend even called me a weakling. FYI, doing ur jobs and responsibilities, trying ur best for ur future are not considered weak. Some call me a slut and insult me something that is really offensive for me. But I can't help but feel affectected by their words since I'm always with them and the two of them are my seatmates. We're six friends actually, the only one who's positive and supportive is this one friend. She helps me, never says bad stuffs about me and a very happy go lucky person. I feel comfortable hanging out with her than my four other bffs. Cuz actually, my four bffs likes dissing and talking shit about people behind their back. They've once talked about my friend and said something so offensive. And this conversation leads that they're looking down at her. All I did there is stay quiet, afraid to say anything because they might do it to me as well. They're so quick to judge in a person's appearance. I know that cuz every year we get transfer students. Because of this, I tried to distance myself from them and hangout a lot with my positive friend
They weren't like this before. They used to be nice and someone who doesn't say negative stuffs to people.
Now, I'm just so irritated and angry. I'm sick of getting dragged by them. All I wanted are positive friends who doesn't insult me for being who I am
+Sai kiran the only way out is to accept your in it and that it's going to happen. I know how much it hurts and how tormenting the confusion is. It's all a huge distraction. You have to find a place in you (i found it through God) to put your confidence. If you try and figure out their game you fall in the rabbit hole of anxiety and confusion and if you try to ignore it they get louder and louder and then u fall into the rabbit hole of fear and anxiety and frustration. Its a double whammy. The perfect crime. Try to offer up the pain to God and ask for the holy spirit of counsel. When you accept there is nothing you can do and your going to go through it no matter what it is the first step to not falling deeper in their trap (thats what they look for, thats the win in their game). With enough practice of not being strung along in fear cuz u think ur goin to change something they will give up but not easily. They have their ways. Even the advice i give you theyll try to play with in your mind when they catch onto what your doing. They might even lay off you for a couple days to restrategize and let you think what your doing worked and then out of nowhere they start up again to break your confidence in your realization that nothing works. Theyll use anything tho so dont worry about it, this is the only way thatll work. They will even try to do anything they can to try to make it look like you are focused on them and its because part of u is and thats where they get you. You cant change your brain from doing that so its pointless to try. Once you can accept that theres nothing you can do to stop it or prevent them from trying to hurt you while your in the situation it will give u so much relief and itll free you up to respond however you want to respond (within reason lol). From there do what you can to focus on yourself and work on yourself. The more you build yourself spiritually physically and mentally the better your life will become, the more focused you'll be and the less people will be able to bother you.
I'm also the same situation my cunning friends throw papers, books on me that was irritating of me because i don't know which one throw papers, books on me in that situation i feel very angry but i don't know which one throw papers, books on me. Please help me to out this situation. Plz plz plz
Hate to say this, but sometimes (with guys at least) the solution is smacking the teaser. Don't try it with a guy who's much bigger than you are, of course. A family member was getting teased by the same guy for a year. Tried all the standard techniques to stop the bully, but they didn't work.
So, my family member took some lesions in kick boxing. Next time the bully started his thing, my family member warned him. No effect. So my family member leaped up in the air, and kicked the guy right in the face. Result: no more bullying.
Its best to just ignore them they will get bored of you if they say something don't say can you hear that cause you will piss them off
more just pretend there not there. If that doesn't work tell someone that you can trust only. Or you can make fun of them (not the best idea tho) like roasting
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